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type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.herdeepthoughts.com/feeds/2592802916476049153/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5325193313432760481/2592802916476049153/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.herdeepthoughts.com/2009/06/abuse-not-always-as-seen-on-tv.html'/><author><name>LaLicenciada</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15155116476790680637</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='28' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_uxf6GTD5FeI/TVFidk6pzZI/AAAAAAAABEs/vdlnzusSGlM/s220/th_button-1.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>6</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5325193313432760481.post-6458966829585650525</id><published>2011-04-03T18:44:39.458-04:00</published><updated>2011-04-03T18:44:39.458-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Great post in explaining abuse and manipulation.  ...</title><content type='html'>Great post in explaining abuse and manipulation.  Thank you for sharing your story so others, too, can break free. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;XO,&lt;br /&gt;Rachel</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5325193313432760481/2592802916476049153/comments/default/6458966829585650525'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5325193313432760481/2592802916476049153/comments/default/6458966829585650525'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.herdeepthoughts.com/2009/06/abuse-not-always-as-seen-on-tv.html?showComment=1301870679458#c6458966829585650525' title=''/><author><name>The Digital Latina</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05482920187997473552</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.herdeepthoughts.com/2009/06/abuse-not-always-as-seen-on-tv.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5325193313432760481.post-2592802916476049153' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5325193313432760481/posts/default/2592802916476049153' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-455243297'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5325193313432760481.post-2110220800439397143</id><published>2011-04-03T18:10:59.565-04:00</published><updated>2011-04-03T18:10:59.565-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Every time a survivor speaks up, I want to stand u...</title><content type='html'>Every time a survivor speaks up, I want to stand up and cheer. I am so glad you made it through that situation, and have found your voice.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The world is a much better place when your smile lights up the room - instead of hiding from critical comments.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5325193313432760481/2592802916476049153/comments/default/2110220800439397143'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5325193313432760481/2592802916476049153/comments/default/2110220800439397143'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.herdeepthoughts.com/2009/06/abuse-not-always-as-seen-on-tv.html?showComment=1301868659565#c2110220800439397143' title=''/><author><name>Ofelia</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18028260267630333069</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.herdeepthoughts.com/2009/06/abuse-not-always-as-seen-on-tv.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5325193313432760481.post-2592802916476049153' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5325193313432760481/posts/default/2592802916476049153' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-578451828'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5325193313432760481.post-4179825972981457108</id><published>2010-02-16T12:24:01.706-05:00</published><updated>2010-02-16T12:24:01.706-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Sum Kinda Wonderful, Bonnie, and Ms. Latina - Than...</title><content type='html'>Sum Kinda Wonderful, Bonnie, and Ms. Latina - Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts on the subject. I think its important to ge the message out there, so your support is appreciated. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Best, &lt;br /&gt;Li</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5325193313432760481/2592802916476049153/comments/default/4179825972981457108'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5325193313432760481/2592802916476049153/comments/default/4179825972981457108'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.herdeepthoughts.com/2009/06/abuse-not-always-as-seen-on-tv.html?showComment=1266341041706#c4179825972981457108' title=''/><author><name>LaLicenciada</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15155116476790680637</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='18361172781477219286'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_uxf6GTD5FeI/SQvnqsiu2nI/AAAAAAAAAAw/fdeAsOeSO-8/S220/SnapshotW.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.herdeepthoughts.com/2009/06/abuse-not-always-as-seen-on-tv.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5325193313432760481.post-2592802916476049153' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5325193313432760481/posts/default/2592802916476049153' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1495140053'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5325193313432760481.post-9058986209869649944</id><published>2010-02-15T20:46:41.243-05:00</published><updated>2010-02-15T20:46:41.243-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I&amp;#39;m so glad you were able to see what was happ...</title><content type='html'>I&amp;#39;m so glad you were able to see what was happening and get out before it escalated any further. So many people fail to realize that abuse is gradual,if it weren&amp;#39;t, the victim would run.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thankfully you realized this and had a wonderful support group by your side!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5325193313432760481/2592802916476049153/comments/default/9058986209869649944'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5325193313432760481/2592802916476049153/comments/default/9058986209869649944'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.herdeepthoughts.com/2009/06/abuse-not-always-as-seen-on-tv.html?showComment=1266284801243#c9058986209869649944' title=''/><author><name>Ms. Latina</name><uri>http://latinaonamission.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.herdeepthoughts.com/2009/06/abuse-not-always-as-seen-on-tv.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5325193313432760481.post-2592802916476049153' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5325193313432760481/posts/default/2592802916476049153' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1714851504'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5325193313432760481.post-5476094725096987662</id><published>2009-07-03T08:48:34.936-04:00</published><updated>2009-07-03T08:48:34.936-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Thank you for showing that no one is immune from b...</title><content type='html'>Thank you for showing that no one is immune from being oppressed or manipulated.  This is a great reminder that, no matter how far gone we feel from ourselves, that little &amp;quot;flame&amp;quot; glows inside of us, always.  We can reach inside and fan it whenever we want if we remember that once upon a time, even if it was a long time ago, we had the freedom and courage to do so and our spirits were able to dance wildly in the wind.  Keep your spirit dancing, lady...</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5325193313432760481/2592802916476049153/comments/default/5476094725096987662'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5325193313432760481/2592802916476049153/comments/default/5476094725096987662'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.herdeepthoughts.com/2009/06/abuse-not-always-as-seen-on-tv.html?showComment=1246625314936#c5476094725096987662' title=''/><author><name>Bonnie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13898143519276870284</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.herdeepthoughts.com/2009/06/abuse-not-always-as-seen-on-tv.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5325193313432760481.post-2592802916476049153' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5325193313432760481/posts/default/2592802916476049153' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-701953624'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5325193313432760481.post-586331063701250859</id><published>2009-06-19T18:14:19.317-04:00</published><updated>2009-06-19T18:14:19.317-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Thanks you for sharing this.</title><content type='html'>Thanks you for sharing this.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5325193313432760481/2592802916476049153/comments/default/586331063701250859'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5325193313432760481/2592802916476049153/comments/default/586331063701250859'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.herdeepthoughts.com/2009/06/abuse-not-always-as-seen-on-tv.html?showComment=1245449659317#c586331063701250859' title=''/><author><name>Sum Kinda Wonderful...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15404348719506527251</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='11286522852299753428'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_dgxvtudRot0/SeVum5ACBXI/AAAAAAAAACM/DbzF81FqmSo/S220/henna.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.herdeepthoughts.com/2009/06/abuse-not-always-as-seen-on-tv.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5325193313432760481.post-2592802916476049153' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5325193313432760481/posts/default/2592802916476049153' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1109699275'/></entry></feed>
